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Two thirds of lesbians postpone coming out due to damaging ‘man-hating’, ‘over-sexualised’ stereotypes | The Independent
2022-04-26 00:00:00.0     独立报-英国新闻     原网页

       

       Two thirds of lesbians postpone coming out as a result of negative sterotypes, including fears they will be percieved as“man-hating”, “over-sexualised” or “anti-trans”, according to new research.

       A survey, carried out by Just Like Us, an LGBT+ rights charity, found three in ten polled said they decided to delay telling their friends and family they were gay due to fears being a lesbian is perceived to be “cringey or awkward”.

       While almost the same proportion of the 643 lesbians polled said they postponed coming out about their sexuality due to homophobic societal misconceptions being a lesbian is “wrong”.

       Researchers, whose study comes out on Lesbian Visibility Week, found around a quarter of women were scared to come out due to bigoted cultural perceptions being a lesbian is “taboo”, while a quarter cited fears of lesbians being deemed “embarrassing”.

       Pippa, who is from London, said: “I started realising I was gay when I was 15 but didn’t really feel comfortable calling myself anything until I was 20.

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       “A lot of people made me think that I couldn’t be sure that I was gay, especially because I’d had a boyfriend before. I didn’t really know how to talk to people about it, because the word lesbian is so tied to sex and pornography that it always feels like calling yourself lesbian is the same as sharing details about your sex life.”

       Amy Ashenden, of Just Like Us, said it was “heartbreaking” to learn so many lesbians are “delaying living their lives to the fullest”.

       Ms Ashenden added: “And feel unable to come out because of tired lesbophobic stereotypes that continue to be perpetuated, and this is something I regularly see lesbians struggling with.

       “It is especially sad to see that lesbians are delaying coming out because they fear being seen as butch, masculine and unattractive – societally there is a lot of work to be done around embracing women of all gender expressions and bringing positive messaging around being a butch lesbian to the forefront.”

       Ms Ashenden, who is a lesbian herself, warned portraying lesbians as man-hating, unattractive or anti-trans is to “unfairly stereotype an entire community – these stereotypes are rooted in misogynistic ideas of what a woman should be and we can see the damaging effects of these stereotypes, particularly on young lesbians, in the research.”

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       While Dominic Arnall, chief executive of Just Like Us, argued it is “deeply saddening” to see the “next generation of young lesbians are still suffering from these harmful and damaging stereotypes about lesbians”.

       He added: “All young people deserve to know that being LGBT+ is something to be celebrated and through our work with schools, we want to smash these stereotypes and show that being a lesbian is a wonderful, positive thing.”

       It comes after a report from last year by the same charity found young LBGT+ teenagers are more than twice as likely as their heterosexual peers to worry about their mental health on a daily basis.

       


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